Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Grief Can Bring Us Together. Genesis 35:16-29

May the mumbling commence!

How well do we deal with grief when it enters our lives?  Because, sooner or later, grief will enter – ready or not.  It was true for Jacob; it’s true for us as well.  Read from Peterson’s The Message:

            They left Bethel.  They were still quite a ways from Ephrath when Rachel went into labor – hard, hard labor.  When her labor pains were at their worst, the midwife said to her, “Don’t be afraid – you have another boy.”
                With her last breath, for she was now dying, she named him Ben-oni (Son-of-My-Pain), but his father named him Ben-jamin (Son-of-Good-Fortune).
                Rachel died and was buried on the road to Ephrath, that is, Bethlehem.  Jacob set up a pillar to mark her grave.  It is still there today, “Rachel’s Grave Stone.”
                Israel kept on his way and set up camp at Migdal Eder.  While Israel was living in that region, Reuben went and slept with his father’s concubine, Bilhah.  And Israel heard of what he did.
There were twelve sons of Jacob.
The sons by Leah:
                Reuben, Jacob’s firstborn, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Issachar, Zebulun.
The sons by Rachel:
                Joseph, Benjamin.
The sons by Bilhah, Rachel’s maid:
                Dan, Naphtali.
The sons by Zilpah, Leah’s maid:
                Gad, Asher.
These were Jacob’s sons, born to him in Paddan Aram.
                Finally, Jacob made it back home to his father Isaac at Mamre in Kiriath Arba, present-day Hebron, where Abraham and Isaac had lived.  Isaac was now 180 years old.  Isaac breathed his last and died – an old man full of years.  He was buried with his family by his sons Esau and Jacob.  (Genesis 35:16-29)

Now read the same passage from the NIV translation:

Then they moved on from Bethel. While they were still some distance from Ephrath, Rachel began to give birth and had great difficulty.  And as she was having great difficulty in childbirth, the midwife said to her, "Don't be afraid, for you have another son."  As she breathed her last – for she was dying – she named her son Ben-Oni. But his father named him Benjamin. 
So Rachel died and was buried on the way to Ephrath (that is, Bethlehem).  Over her tomb Jacob set up a pillar, and to this day that pillar marks Rachel's tomb. 
Israel moved on again and pitched his tent beyond Migdal Eder.  While Israel was living in that region, Reuben went in and slept with his father's concubine Bilhah, and Israel heard of it.
Jacob had twelve sons: 
The sons of Leah:
Reuben the firstborn of Jacob, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Issachar and Zebulun. 
The sons of Rachel:
Joseph and Benjamin. 
The sons of Rachel's maidservant Bilhah:
Dan and Naphtali. 
The sons of Leah's maidservant Zilpah:
Gad and Asher.
These were the sons of Jacob, who were born to him in Paddan Aram. 
Jacob came home to his father Isaac in Mamre, near Kiriath Arba (that is, Hebron), where Abraham and Isaac had stayed.  Isaac lived a hundred and eighty years.  Then he breathed his last and died and was gathered to his people, old and full of years. And his sons Esau and Jacob buried him.  (Genesis 35:16-29)

Son of pain… that says it all.  But Jacob names him son of good fortune instead.  As Jacob moves on from the death of his beloved, he is finally referred to as Israel.  It’s the first time that happens other than God telling Jacob his name will be Israel.

Jacob’s beloved wife, Rachel, did not get “gathered to her people”.  She was buried alone in a roadside grave.  She did not join Sarah and Abraham and Isaac and Rebekah.  Rachel was not God’s wife of the covenant promise.  Jacob… Israel was beginning to realize that.  

Sadness brought Israel closer to God and Esau and Jacob closer together.

In our sadness, let’s find ways to bond with God and with our brothers and sisters.


Enough mumbling for now…  

Peace Out

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