Thursday, December 18, 2014

Sibling Rivalry. Genesis 25:27-34

May the mumbling commence!

A sibling rivalry is born.  Anyone with siblings knows what this is all about.  I have seven siblings, and my closest sibling (a sister) was near impossible for me to live with while we were both under our parents’ roof.  Now that we live separately, we get along swell.  Before the separation, things were different.  Such a sibling rivalry was born between Esau and Jacob.  Read from Peterson’s The Message:

            The boys grew up.  Esau became an expert hunter, an outdoorsmanJacob was a quiet man preferring life indoors among the tents.  Isaac loved Esau because he loved his game, but Rebekah loved Jacob.
            One day Jacob was cooking stew.  Esau came in from the field, starved.  Esau said to Jacob, “Give me some of that red stew – I’m starved!”  That’s how he came to be called Edom (Red).
            Jacob said, “Make me a trade: my stew for your rights as the firstborn.”
            Esau said, “I’m starving!  What good is a birthright if I’m dead?”
            Jacob said, “First swear to me.”  And he did it.  On oath Esau traded away his rights as the firstborn.  Jacob gave him bread and the stew of lentils.  He ate and drank, got up and left.  That’s how Esau shrugged off his rights as the firstborn.  (Genesis 25:27-34)

Now read the same passage from the NIV translation:

The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was a quiet man, staying among the tents.  Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob. 
Once when Jacob was cooking some stew, Esau came in from the open country, famished.  He said to Jacob, "Quick, let me have some of that red stew! I'm famished!" (That is why he was also called Edom.) 
Jacob replied, "First sell me your birthright." 
"Look, I am about to die," Esau said. "What good is the birthright to me?" 
But Jacob said, "Swear to me first." So he swore an oath to him, selling his birthright to Jacob.  Then Jacob gave Esau some bread and some lentil stew. He ate and drank, and then got up and left.
So Esau despised his birthright.  (Genesis 25:27-34)

They were twins, but they could hardly be more different.  That was a beginning of conflict.  Esau was a daddy’s boy, and Jacob was a momma’s boy.

And it didn’t help that Mom and Dad picked favorites.  Isaac loved Esau.  Rebekah loved Jacob.  The underlying connotations are that Isaac loved Esau more than Jacob and that Rebekah loved Jacob more than Esau.  That, I’m sure, made matters worse.

Jacob knew what he wanted.  So did Esau.  Jacob was jockeying for the greatest share of the inheritance.  His view was more long term.

Esau was a man of the moment.  He was controlled by his immediate desires and drives.  He was famished… starving.  He was blind to the long term consequences of his rash oath.

I find it interesting the differences of emphasis on this oath by the NIV and Peterson.  The NIV seems more antagonistic.  Esau knew what he was doing.  He despised his birthright.  Peterson lightens the connotations by saying that Esau shrugged off his rights as a firstborn.  A vast majority of the translations go with the harder verb – despised.

Of the other differences, I think the NIV is less ambiguous about the reason for Isaac’s love for Esau.  Isaac loved the taste of his wild game… rather than Isaac loved Esau’s game (that can mean a number of different things).  And the love of eating wild game will come into play later, as we will see.

The important underlying question in these family dynamics is:  Do we allow our own prejudices influence or blind us to God’s will for us and our families?  We will discover the answer for Isaac and Rebekah.  How is it for us?  Though my family unit has only one child, the question is still important.


Enough mumbling for now…  

Peace Out

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